What I Say

First Day of School

2007-08-20T09:28:00.000-04:00

YAY!!!
The first day of school has been so good, my baby was looking so so right, i was like DAAAAAAAAMN, she walked up to me gave me a kiss I was so happy, well ima update more when i get home, im out.

Period 3 Tra

Essence Of A French Kiss

2007-05-08T11:43:00.000-04:00

Kissing Basics
There is NO right or wrong way to kiss. Every person kisses differently. And everybody likes to be kissed differently! So your true aim is to find out what style YOU enjoy, and then what style your MATE enjoys and how to meld the two. Some like gentle kisses. Some like passionate kisses. Some like dry kisses. Some like wet, sloppy kisses. If your last girlfriend said you were an awful kisser, it just means you weren't her style. Your next girlfriend could think you are a FABULOUS kisser, even if you kiss in exactly the same way.

FOCUS on the person you are kissing. You shouldn't be distracted or absent minded or humming a song. The person you're kissing will want to feel like this kiss is really special.
Also, hopefully it goes without saying, brush your teeth and gargle! You want VERY fresh breath if someone is going to up near it. Don't put on lots of gloss or lipstick. The kiss shouldn't be gooey, it should be skin on skin.

Start with the Cheek
When you're near the person (standing or sitting) and ready for the kiss, it's good to start with a cheek-kiss. That's an "innocent kiss" and a "you're special" move. Either the boy OR the girl can do this. Squeezing his/her hand at the same time is another way of saying "you're special". You can see if your partner likes this, or feels uncomfortable. If they're uncomfortable, no big deal, just stay at that level until the comfort comes back again, maybe in a few days or a week or two.

Move On to the Lips
If you've done the cheek kiss first like you should have, you've already shown your partner that "it's ok to kiss". Think of it as training you both to learn new behaviors So Kissing is Good. Now you're just changing your kissing method. Instead of going for the cheek, go for the lips.
Again, be soft. Your first lip kisses should be slow, langorous, gentle, with a closed mouth. Press your lips gently against your partner's, and savor the sensation of their skin against your own. Just hold it for a few moments, then release. Always show how much you enjoy these steps, with a smile or a sigh. Your partner will always be nervous about "did I do that well enough?" Show them that they did, so they are encouraged to do it again!

Close Mouthed to Open Mouthed
The first big step in kissing progression is to go from the normal 'hello/goodbye' closed-mouthed kiss to an open-mouthed kiss. You do this with your tongue. When you're close-mouthed kissing in a quiet, relaxed area, now tickle your tongue against their lips. Do it in a gentle, teasing way, as if you're saying "Hello ... let me in ..." Eventually slide your tongue gently into your partner's mouth, just a little. Do little, gentle experimentive probes. Your partner will be wondering, "What will happen next?" You want that to be an exciting thing, not a nervous thing. So go slowly. Tickle your partner's lip, and then tongue. Now draw your partner's tongue into your own mouth.

French Kissing
French Kissing is the more erotic style of open mouthed kissing. It is in essence kissing that brings to mind parts of the full sex act, so therefore is very arousing because of the mental images it causes. Either the guy or girl can do this. First, take your tongue and make slow, gentle circles around your partner's tongue. Go slowly at first, then more and more quickly. Then plunge your tongue down along your partner's tongue, sliding down it until your tongue is fully extended. Do that one or two times, then slowly slide your tongue back out and start with the gentle circling again.

Your Hands
You don't want your hands to be all over creation during this kind of kissing - it's distracting!! There's plenty of time to do hand stuff later on. Right now you're doing amazing things with your tongue and you want that to be the focus. Your tongue can be MUCH more erotic than your hands could be. So keep your hands up around their head, cupping the back of their head, rubbing along their necks and shoulders, running it thorugh their hair, pulling their back so they are pressed into you. The more you focus the attention solely on your mouth and tongue, the stronger the impact will be.

When you're Done
Don't run off! Your partner is probably thinking, "That was great, what does he/she think?" You want to leave a POSITIVE impression. Pull back slowly. Look into your partner's eyes. Smile. Sigh. Don't laugh, even if you're nervous. Think of a calm after a storm, and just murmur something encouraging like "wow" or "that was *nice*" or just the person's name.

Overview:
Set the scene. Make sure that the mood and time are right.
Relax! Take a deep breath and let go of any tension in your neck and shoulders.
Put your arms around the person you want to kiss.
Start off with a normal kiss, not too firm, not too aggressive. Closing your eyes is optional.
In mid kiss, gently open your mouth and softly nudge the other persons mouth open using your tongue.
Again, not too aggressively, move your tongue inside the other persons mouth and playfully touch their tounge.
Read the other persons body language, if they seem tense or start to pull away, stop what you are doing.
If they open their mouth more or otherwise indicate they like the kiss, keep on doing what you have been only with a little more passion.
As the kissing gets going saliva build up can be a problem, don't forget to swallow.
Make sure you keep your tongues relaxed but your lips tight (saliva again), you don't want the kiss to turn messy.

Extra Tips:
Don't forget to breathe.
Since French Kissing is "wetter" than other kinds of kissing it is a good idea to start with dry lips, don't lick them first.
If one of you have braces you can still French Kiss, you just have to be more careful and not as forceful when things get passionate.
If both of you wear braces you can still French Kiss, you just have to be very gentle and avoid touching teeth.
French Kissing takes practice, but at least it is fun to practice this one!

Ok, luck every1

What We Told Each Other

2007-05-03T13:13:00.000-04:00

Ok it all started as I need to write a poem with the word heart in it. Next thing I know we expressed our feelings in a brand new way:

What She Told Me:
Roses are red
Violets are blue
You stole my heart
Now I am in love with you.
Thanks for the love that we share together
Theres nothing like saying its forever

Author: Valerie Washington

What I Told Her:
Hear in my heart you always be
Baby if you choose to just stay with me
You know my feelings for you are so real
I just cant fight the way i feel
If only you who my love was to
I would just look you in the eyes and say baby its you
But all in the end when were finish and through
All i have to say is baby i love you

Author: Travius Mathis

"All I Have To Say Is, Now I Know This Is LOVE"

Damn Bitch

2007-05-02T22:51:00.000-04:00

::sighs::

"Ok here me clearly, clen the wax out yo ears and listen up. If you think the following applys to you, then let it be. This is what ima need you to do. Leave me the FUCK alone, cus im telling you if you cross my path your going to get a piece of my mind. Hold up ~~scratch~~ that I'm not gonna put you out there but trust me I am going to let you know how the hell I feel."

First off, step to the plate and take yo clowning like a man, well at least the man you wanna be. How in the HELL you even think about trying to talk to my girlfrien, knowing how I feel about her. Second your a F'IN girl. Girls should not want vaj(DRE and MATT's word). My girlfriend is not gay which means she doesnt want women and she doesnt want your ass, so get that through your F'IN head. But if that doesnt work this is what I want you to do. Go to HELL get your motherfucking priorities straight and come back to reality. Soon as you do that come see bout me.

Another thing that really confuses me is the fact that you sit up here in my face talking about an "awwwww this" and an "awwwwwww that", and "im so happy for yall", bitch dont try me with that and I actually considered you a friend and you jump off and pull this bullshit, your out your motherfucking mind, trying to get with my girl. Friends don't do that to "SUPPOSEDLY FRIENDS". But ima tell you like this and now is the time to listen ME TRA WILL BE DAMNED IF YOU COME AND FUCKS WITH THE GIRL I THINK THE WORLD OF AND YOUR ALSO TRYING TO RUIN MY RELATIONSHIP WITH THIS BULLSHIT, all I have to say is word to the wise, "KICK FUCKING ROCKS AND LEAVE ME THE HELL ALONE". But hey look at it on the bright side I AINT GOT NOTHING BUT ♥ FOR YOU.

CAPESHE BITCH

The New Tra

2007-05-02T14:09:00.000-04:00

[Ok scratch the shit: What I need you to do is this, forget every little fucking thing your doing cus nothing can be more important than this. First things first, get rid of the background music, cut the fucking T.V. down, if your mexican turn that damn Spanish shit off and do the damn thing. =]]

Ok Tra is back from vacation. There is no longer a traVion he was temporary. But the new tra is just as real as they come. Im not saying I'm the "REALEST NIGGA AROUND", nope so dont even say that. The new Tra is a whole new type of person. Tra is here for good and is leaving no time soon.

First and foremost I would like for everyone to know that the enw Tra is madly in LOVE with VALERIE WASHINGTON. So bitches leave me the FUCK alone, cause I love my girl. I've had the biggest CRUSH on her since the first day of school and aint shit gonna cahnge about that.
Baby tell them bitches to leave the hell alone cus I, Travius Mathis ♥'s my BABY. Now come see bout me.
Second this is tra is on some other shit. The old Tra that left was just a piece of crap who let everybody run over him. But me "I'd be damned if I let any fucking body run me over". Now send that to your mama. Bitch

Another thing I want to say is _{hold up lemme put this} BIG, No the FUCK I will not make your ASS a layout for any fucking thing, not MYSPACE, YOSPACE, or ANYBODY ELSE'S SPACE. So please don't send me a fucking message talking about eww...Tra i like your layout can you make me one, cus my response to the will be NO THE FUCK I WON'T, NOW LEAVE ME THE FUCK ALONE. The only wayima making a layout round here is if you puttin some fucking money up other than that you can kiss my natural black ass about it.

Last but not least if you dont like the new fucking me then you kno what you can do with this and the fucking computer keys. You can shove them up your ass.
Sincerely The New Fucking Tra

9 Months

2007-05-01T09:33:00.000-04:00

Its been 9 months since weve known each other and from that very first time I layed eyes on you I've had a crush. I walked into the classroom and saw you sitting there and all I did was smile cus I thought you was beautiful. So me being me I sat right next to you trying to do my thing and make you laugh but uhm...it wasn't working. But the thing is even though we've had our ups and downs for the last 9 months, I never stopped caring for you cus I really liked you. But in the end waiting 9 months was really worth the wait cus now I've found my happiness and the best girl any man could wish for. Baby the last few days have been the best. I will always remember April 26, 2007 as the best day ever cus it was the day me and you got together. Baby all I have to say is that im glad your my girl and that I am so truly in love with you and I couldnt be any happier with anybody else. I just want to say one thing,

Val I ♥ You

The Best Day Ever

2007-04-27T09:38:00.000-04:00

People I am so happy =]. I can finally say shes my girlfriend. She makes me happy and makes me feel so good words can't even say. I am so happy. April 26, 2007 is the best day of my life. She made this day the best day of my life because she came into my life. Me and her finally became an "US" instead of it being a ~~you~~ and me. Val, baby I am so happy to be with you now. I really hope we can make things work out cus you mean a lot to me. After a long nine months of me chasing after you. Waiting was the best thing I could ever have done. All I have to say is that i kno we can make things last. Love always Tra.